Chelsea’s Blog

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A Gift for You Today

When I was a kid I was desperate to be liked by people. I wanted to be liked so much that I couldn’t have even told you my favorite color because I wanted people to like me so badly that I would adopt theirs. I’ve caught myself thinking so many times, well, when I’m older […]

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Your Wishes Don’t Have to Be a Secret

You go to a birthday party. The cake comes out. Everyone says to the birthday person, “Okay! Make a wish!” The birthday person closes their eyes, makes a wish and blows out the candles. “What did you wish for?” Someone in the crowd asks. Every head turns to stare—doesn’t that person know better than to […]

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You Can Stop Explaining Yourself Now And Here’s Why

As long as I’ve been alive I’ve required an explanation. How did you come to be? Why? How did it work? Was that hard for you? Did you ever want your family to be different? And don’t get me wrong, I don’t actually mind the questions, I just have realized that I am very used […]

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You Do Not Need To “Earn” Your Fun

When was the last time you consciously had fun? I mean, really, just unbridled joy and fun and enjoyment of something without feeling like you needed to earn it first.  So often I feel like I get sucked into the idea that I need to earn my fun. That once I’ve done a hard day’s […]

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You are exactly where you’re supposed to be.

Hello, my loves! I hope you’re having a wonderful day wherever you are in the world. And whether it’s an amazing day or a day that leaves you wanting for something more, I am wrapping my arms around you.  Life is not a straight shot. You don’t shoot your bow and arrow and watch your […]

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It’s Time To Flip The Script! Course Sign-ups Are Live!

Break Free From What Society Has Told You To Be… Not Feeling Enough,   Having to Prove Your Worth, and  Robbing You of Your Freedoms,  Joy, and Living The Life You Dream Of!  You’ve been plagued by the idea of constantly needing to do more and more to prove the value of who you innately are […]

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Why Is Competition Hindering Our Learning?

It’s been a while since I sat in a class and started learning something new. It’s been a while since I sat in a class and felt like the teacher was speaking a different language (and they aren’t). It’s hard to admit when we don’t understand something. It’s a challenge for me to be less […]

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Social Butterfly Exhaustion

It’s so exciting. Things are starting to open up. We’re able to start seeing our people again, and I don’t know about you, but I’m freaking exhausted. It’s a beautiful exhaustion, but nonetheless, I am experiencing exhausting from so much socializing in person and on Zoom. So, this is a reminder that we may not […]

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We Are Always Choosing

I posted last week about decision-making and the notion that we always have a choice. Then another entire facet about choosing and choices occurred to me that I got really excited about. Having a choice goes beyond deciding what our priorities are and how to make time. We also have a choice in how we […]

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Feeling Burned Out? Do The Last Thing You Want To Do…

I am so used to running so fast throughout life that when I start to feel burnt out the last thing I want to do is take a break.  The break feels like the enemy, when in reality, if we can lean into the break we will be able to bring so much more of […]

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