Chelsea’s Blog

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You Can Stop Explaining Yourself Now And Here’s Why

As long as I’ve been alive I’ve required an explanation. How did you come to be? Why? How did it work? Was that hard for you? Did you ever want your family to be different? And don’t get me wrong, I don’t actually mind the questions, I just have realized that I am very used […]

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You Do Not Need To “Earn” Your Fun

When was the last time you consciously had fun? I mean, really, just unbridled joy and fun and enjoyment of something without feeling like you needed to earn it first.  So often I feel like I get sucked into the idea that I need to earn my fun. That once I’ve done a hard day’s […]

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You are exactly where you’re supposed to be.

Hello, my loves! I hope you’re having a wonderful day wherever you are in the world. And whether it’s an amazing day or a day that leaves you wanting for something more, I am wrapping my arms around you.  Life is not a straight shot. You don’t shoot your bow and arrow and watch your […]

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Stop Making Decisions From The Eye Of The Storm

So, I’ve noticed that for myself, sometimes the smallest things will incur a very intense emotional stress response. Especially when I am trying people please, at work, on vacations, trying to protect everyone from themselves and me, which seems to be a theme in my life.  Trying to make people happy is like playing whack-a-mole […]

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It’s Time To Flip The Script! Course Sign-ups Are Live!

Break Free From What Society Has Told You To Be… Not Feeling Enough,   Having to Prove Your Worth, and  Robbing You of Your Freedoms,  Joy, and Living The Life You Dream Of!  You’ve been plagued by the idea of constantly needing to do more and more to prove the value of who you innately are […]

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Why Is Competition Hindering Our Learning?

It’s been a while since I sat in a class and started learning something new. It’s been a while since I sat in a class and felt like the teacher was speaking a different language (and they aren’t). It’s hard to admit when we don’t understand something. It’s a challenge for me to be less […]

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Social Butterfly Exhaustion

It’s so exciting. Things are starting to open up. We’re able to start seeing our people again, and I don’t know about you, but I’m freaking exhausted. It’s a beautiful exhaustion, but nonetheless, I am experiencing exhausting from so much socializing in person and on Zoom. So, this is a reminder that we may not […]

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You Know You Better Than Anyone: Ergo, You Get To Define What Self-Care Is

I’m big into defining everything in my life for myself and that extends to my definition of self-care. You define your self-care and whatever that looks like for you. Don’t let other peoples’ judgments about how you take care of yourself stop you from doing things the way that make your heart sing.  So, to […]

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Why Make The Hard Things Harder…The Easy Way to Have Tough Conversations

Tough conversations. We all have to have them in our lives, but I have a method. Because I love a good method for approaching almost anything.  So, to sum it all up: Let’s manifest those conversations going well Let’s have a plan of approach before we enter the conversation Let’s have a phrase we know […]

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We Are Always Choosing

I posted last week about decision-making and the notion that we always have a choice. Then another entire facet about choosing and choices occurred to me that I got really excited about. Having a choice goes beyond deciding what our priorities are and how to make time. We also have a choice in how we […]

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